This article isn’t meant for Bonnie and Clyde couples headed for jail.
Rather, I’ll cut to the chase and zone in on those of you caught up in one of the more deceptive, yet prevalent sin in the dating world. It feels so right, and you have every excuse in the world to continue.
” the unnamed person submitted, which could be seen as a complex, challenging, and delicate issue. Two married people who are married to each other can go on vacation. I still want to date and take a vacation with my "boo." It leaves room for the devil/enemy to come in cause you to fall into sin.
“Well, there’s several answers to that question,” Adams said. You probably need it.” But there were a few ground rules Adams laid down. That’s beautiful.” But extramarital affairs, a violation of God's word, are out of the question. None of that co-habitation and all of that kind of stuff. “And we don’t act like a married couple on vacation. And so, yes, it is fine for you and your boo to go on vacation.” So, rather than keeping "grown and sexy," if you go, looks like she's telling you to keep it Godly and sanctified. Stop trying to justify everything be honest and realistic! Look you can have sex anywhere the opportunity presence it's self!
However, a husband is responsible to lead his wife in sanctification, as this verse explains with the imagery of Christ and His bride.
If a man cannot do that, he is not ready to be a husband.
And if he is not ready to be a husband, dating him could only have a sorrowful outcome.
Marriage is a covenantal bond between a man and a woman where there is dependence—to a certain extent.
When God gave the Israelites an exodus opportunity, they took it. If your relationship is even slightly abusive, consider this your sign to exit the relationship NOW!
It can be difficult to be clear-headed in a dating relationship.
It is easy to see only the positive in the other person and completely ignore any warning signs. It would be foolish to date someone and not even consider the possible outcomes.
It’s such a common thing that either you’ve heard of it or are caught up in it yourself! It is the seemingly endless habit many couples have in which they will fight and makeup on a regular basis. It makes for great movies, but what works for a 90-minute Hollywood hit is a no-go in the real world.
What I mean is this: if fighting in your dating world means hitting, pushing, shoving, name calling, yelling, manipulating, or anything rude that occurs on a consistent basis then, of course, turn walk away. In bad relationships, bad things happen and will continue to happen if you let them. Wisdom always does now what brings satisfaction later.